I found this loose note tucked into one of my college journals last night. The note is dated January 5, 2002.

It is a bit cheesy, as I was lofty in my writing style at the time, but it’s amazing how every single item in the note still rings true to me today. I can proudly say I’ve adhered to every single one without even remembering I had written this. 

Promises to Myself:

• Don’t give up on love or life

• Remember after a storm, there’s always a rainbow

• Be a good friend always, even when the other friend isn’t being very good to me

• Never underestimate my emotions and feelings because of something someone else may say; they are what make me a beautiful human being

• Know that a greater love shall arise; I will not be alone in life

• Forgive others; we are not infallible

• Know that it will all come in good time; patience has gotten me this far

• Remember all is not lost; if a friend really loves you, they might not be able to show it, but it’s in his heart and will someday be known

• Pick myself up after being kicked down

• Be a friend to someone who they will never forget